on the 13th would be my 9th month in this current job, and i'm getting worn out. it's not exhaustion from work. in fact, i've always enjoyed my marketing work. ever since i've decided to take on the marketing path, i knew it was something i really want to do for the rest of my life. it's always fun, dynamic, exciting. even though i do hate the reporting stuff, but it's just a small part to fulfill. so the exhaustion actually comes from dealing with the culture, and the boss(es).
perhaps, today was just not my day. i sent a report to the big boss, and she asked me to go to her office as she needed some clarifications. seeing the figures were not according to her expectations, she asked if i followed up. well, truthfully no. my stand was, my boss was the person to be talking to the Sales team and I'd highlighted this issue to him before. he's well aware and told me that currently due to the GSS period, the figure made sense. in his perspective, in comparison to GSS, this report was of lower priority to him than the real money. either how, he had taken over the responsiblities to be the overall in-charge for the Sales team in all aspect, and he would be the person to convey the message to them, i didn't see why i needed to be following up directly from the sales team. if the "in-charge" is not taking priority in this report as of now, am i supposed to still enforce it, by my own rules?
anyhow, the big boss was "utterly disappointed", claiming that this project was my baby, and in exact words she said, "why are you pushing your work to others?". she seriously think that my boss would take over my work if i pushed it to him?? dream on. i wasn't in the mood to rebutt, so i didn't. i just kept quiet, and let her be "utterly disappointed". oh pls, it's a Monday Morning!
and the week before, on a Friday, i felt humiliated by the boss. in a meeting, we gave him updates of an upcoming event we'll be hosting. i gave him the floor plan of the event, shared with him a brief idea of the layout, only to be put down by him. to him, it's "an impressive work with no content". simply coz' he felt that i didn't think through the entire layout, or "failed to imagine how the entire event would be before planning". seriously, if i didn't have an imagery, how the hell i would be able to derive the layout?! so he went on and on and on and on, giving various analogies that reflect my shoddy work.... and he even asked the rest of the team to "vote" if they agree to my proposal of the event layout. honestly, WTF. was that even necessary? sorry, i didn't see that as "guidance", just his way to prove his point that my proposal was trash. the important part was, i didn't even insist that my layout had to be carried out, nor did i said that the layout was final and nothing else to be said. all i did was to show him what i had done, and bam! i was shot down. and he shot me a few more times on my dead body to ensure zero survival. sometimes, i simply don't get it why he had to do such things!?
he apologized to me before the meeting ended. and when we went back to our seats, while he packed his bag ready to leave, he apologized to me again. i wonder if he knew what he was apologizing about. so now that he had apologized twice, am i supposed to forgive and forget? i don't know.... i'm not so much in the forgiving mood lately...
it's simply draining to be dealing with people like that. i wouldn't say they're brainless, but simply unprofessional. they have no qualms in saying things that hurt, picking faults, don't really care if they've wrongly accused people, quick to judge.... even if i've put in my all, and i just slipped a little, they'll constantly harped on the slip-up. why? coz' "it's almost perfect! and now you're not perfect! why oh why?!?" oh, so be it. so tiring to be always explaining and explaining and explaining. i can't keep up with the dramas.
i'm not through with this company yet. next year would be an exciting year with the projects on hand. i need those projects on my resume. and then, if things are not still looking up, i'll leave. patience wearing thin.....
