well, i'm still surprised that YM's friends are still hanging around my blog. thought they would have scattered elsewhere... since i'm feeling in the mood today, i shall address each and every one of them. :)
fionna: i've kind of expected that friends connected with YM would do such things, like moving away since i'm no longer with any connection with him. kind of weird isn't it? my friends would still regard YM as their friend (even though we're not an item anymore) whereas his friends don't behave this way.... worth wondering doesn't it? even if any one of my friends would to see YM on the street, they would prolly give a worthy hi-bye rather than looking through him as if he doesn't exist.
jacob: there's nothing for me to bullshit to any of you. it's either you accept whatever i say, or you just don't. when you don't, you can say that i'm lying, i'm bullshiting, i'm whatever. i don't have to convince you, do i? in fact, you people are the last ones on earth that i need to explain myself to. before pointing the finger at me, perhaps, take a GOOD look at the number of fingers pointing at yourself. i'm scary? i think you're much worse. one moment we're like good buddies, and the next, your back is turned. i thought friends should have mutual respect with each other. do you need to check up the dictionary what does MUTUAL really means? and something i've learnt about the difference between my girlfriends and the rest of you: they understood the REAL meaning of MUTUAL. at least i didnt make the effort to shame you; you did. on the contrary, i have always been grateful to you. whether or not you believe, to you, i have live up to my conscience. regret knowing me or not, it pretty much up to you. come to think about it, your reaction is something laughable.
jasmine: real friends DON'T QUIT! not that i take things for granted, but friends who eventually stick around are my REAL friends. anyone else, prolly the rest of you are fair-weathered, acquaintances per se, someone whom would see right through me on the streets one fine day and pretended i never existed. apparently that to me, it's seriously alright. the rest of you are not even worth a bat of my eyelids, perhaps other than Jacob. i hardly feel the pinch. and at the end of the day, whether i'm in the wrong or not, it's not really much rest of your business.
life goes on, people. so much grievances for something not even worth your effort to tag. whatever i'm doing is not exactly very mature right now, but i don't see why i should be cowering behind my keyboard and not do anything about it. even though i don' have much right to say this, however, i think it suits all of you who commented such things: GROW UP!
whether or not i deserve whatever you guys said, it seriously NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. i don't owe anyone of you any explanations, other than my own girlfriends and YM himself. and FYI, whatever you're doing, are only putting YM in a spot. my 2 cents' worth: THINK before you do anything. make use of the brain since you're given one.
since you people are so keen to 撕破脸皮, i have no qualms to do likewise. at least i avoid being a hypocrite one day. hope that one day, none of you would still smile at me and pretend none of this happened.
mark my words.
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I had never turned my back on you fyi, if u do not believe u can check things out with Peixi... i told her what i intend to do after i see that pics on FB. i also do not have to explain myself why i feel so upset about things u did. and prob u never know.
Well done! I like the wash down!!! I just don't understand how can they be passing such a comment without even finding out what exactly you are going through in your life?! Maybe just like what you mentioned, they unreal at all.
I guess all these so-called friends must have undergone very detailed study of what is right and wrong?!
I believe my comments are crude.
I do think i deserve it. well i used to call u and ask u things first before i comment on anything. but this time round its diff.. i'm too impulsive... monday i saw it and tues morning my anger went away. i was intending to ask u out either wed or thurs or anything u r free to talk about it and ask what happen how come things turn out this way before i come to a conclusion. believe it or not. i guess u should know me well enuff. it's a mistake i made not to be forgiven anyway... sorry.
dear elina,
wats worth wondering (like i mentioned); is why do u assume that "moving away" or like i said "not staying around" is not regarding u as a fren still?
my moving away/ not staying around jus simply mean drifting away, or having less or no contact, or not go out together.. it doesnt mean like u said, tt we would not even smile to u.. u know yr frenz still regard ym as their fren.. but u think so little of us, to think we will not do the same to u.. why is that so?
i seriously think it is uncalled for, for u to direct that at me; that i will look thru u n not even smile at u like u dont exist.. do u know how hurting tt assumption is? we r not really close, but like u mentioned, shouldnt u be more mutual abt frenship?
we want us to be mutual, but r u?
i dun think anyone of us r "keen to 撕破脸皮".. wat good will it do? esp since we r frenz, or mayb were once frenz.. u dun wan to b a hypocrite, u wan us to mark yr words.. who is being the harsher party?
u r pro rite to say its none of our biz wit wats going on wit u n him.. but if u noticed.. we were just mostly commenting on how we; as frenz, would stay or move away..
n btw, i only made a two sentence tag, n u came out wit a whole page.. mayb u were a bit to quick in venting out yr angry, before u got the facts rite?
a fruit for tot:
e other day we went dblo, n i was actually telling yx, "if ping ping around would b more fun rite, and its quite sad she not here.." yx said, nvm, in a few more months she should b joining us liao..
dun u think, if we dun take u as frenz we will say tt?
fionna have always consider u as a fren.. if u still do? =D
Ker Ker -> Fionna
I think your comments are somewhat contradicting. Are friends still friends when they have no contact with each other? Are friends still friends if they are no longer going out together?
In your comment, you mentioned "can't expect us to stay around...esp after today.." Unless you (+ plus someone else) and Elina are staying together, if not, I really cannot derived any other meaning out of that comment except giving up the friendship with her.
And based on your reply, I feel you are more interested to justified yourself, rather than to explain yourself. You just want to justified that you are RIGHT to put the 2 liner there, and it's Elina's WRONG that the friendship is gone.
It is excellent idea. I support you.
And how it to paraphrase?
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